Want to play BDSM but don't know how to start? Sex dolls are the answer!
"BDSM is a special sexual preference where participants need to establish a set of rules and safety measures to ensure that both parties are willing, informed, consenting, and safe; BDSM activities should also be conducted within legal and ethical frameworks, respecting the wishes and boundaries of the participants." Sounds complicated? No worries, if you have a BDSM sex doll, all these preliminary communications, preparations, and safety words will be unnecessary.
- What is BDSM?
- Why use sex dolls for BDSM?
- Tools suitable for BDSM sex dolls
- Common posture
- FAQ
- Conclusion
what is BDSM?
BDSM is a sex game, a term used to describe certain sexual preferences and sexual behavior patterns, it covers a range of behaviors and role-playing involving Bondage & Discipline, B&D, Dominance & Submission, D&S, Sadomasochism, S&M, etc.
The BDSM split is:
- Bondage: The use of a series of bondage tools D or other methods, such as ties, ropes, or handcuffs, to physically restrain a partner during sexual intercourse
- Control: The imposition of control over a partner during sexual intercourse
- Compliance: The right or control to be dominated in sexual intercourse, or to comply voluntarily with the sexual partner
- Sadism and masochism: The infliction or acceptance of physical and mental pain and humiliation, such as dirty talk , whipping, etc., with the consent of both parties
Why use sex dolls for BDSM?
Both sides of the BDSM relationship must agree to a role-playing of domination and submission, "safe, sane, and voluntary," or SSC. Any BDSM behavior should meet these three conditions, but using sex dolls can be completely irrelevant, and it can bring benefits far beyond that.
Customization function: The sex doll has the function of custom appearance, which can adapt to personal preferences. You can choose to engage in BDSM with anyone with any body shape, skin color and hairstyle, and it will not reject you.
Acceptance: BDSM may involve more intense and extreme sexual behavior than traditional sex, with sex dolls that do not have pain sensitivity and can be subjected to greater positions and pressures. But it is also important to know the limits, as any item has the risk of damage in very extreme situations.
Safety and hygiene: The BDSM process may involve bodily fluids and exposure to infection. Sex dolls are relatively real compared to humans, but they will be safer and more hygienic as long as they are thoroughly cleaned and disinfected.
A tool for BDSM playthings
In addition to minor games, some tools are needed for BDSM games, but not all of the tools that can be used with real humans are suitable for sex dolls. Be careful not to cause permanent damage to sex dolls when using them.
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Tool name |
characteristic |
Precautions for use of sex dolls |
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rope |
It can be flexibly wrapped around various parts of the body to create a variety of bondage shapes. The operation is relatively complex and requires certain skills |
It is recommended to use a tie instead of a sex doll, and do not tie it too tight |
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Handcuffs, leg irons |
The design is classic, the effect of limiting the movement of hands and feet is obvious, and the metal material has a strong visual impact |
Metal materials are recommended to be wrapped with soft cloth at the contact position of the skin to avoid damaging the skin of the doll |
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Shackles |
Easy to use, can be quickly worn and unbuttoned, part of the adjustable tightness |
Some dolls come with a binding strap that fits the size, making them more suitable |
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apertural plug |
It can effectively limit speech expression, with a variety of styles and sizes to choose from |
Pay attention to the size of the doll's mouth and the size of the plug you need to buy |
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Whip (single whip, nine-tailed whip, etc.) |
Different whips have different effects and sounds, which can bring a variety of pain experience |
It is recommended to use a leather whip, which is less likely to cause damage to the sex doll |
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Pace (skin pace, wooden pace) |
Flat shape, relatively large beating area, pain is concentrated |
Similarly, the feel of a leather paddle on a sex doll is better |
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necklace |
It is a symbol of the relationship between domination and submission, which can be decorated with chains |
It is recommended to buy it with a chain. Pay attention to the size of the sex doll and the size of the collar. |
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eyeshade |
It completely blocks the view and makes other senses more acute |
A tie can be used as an alternative, or a soft material eye patch, and dark colors should be avoided as they may cause the sex doll to stain |
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Cold wax candles |
The wax oil is at a low temperature and has a warm and slight pricking sensation when dropped on the skin |
The prohibition of sex dolls will cause damage |
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Massage sticks, vibrators |
It comes in different shapes, sizes and vibration modes to stimulate sensitive parts of the body |
Not only can it be used on sex dolls, but it can also be used by yourself. Pay attention to the size and vibration frequency |
Common positions in BDSM with sex dolls
Wrists Tied To The Bed During Missionary
This is the most common position for beginners, who lie on their backs in bed and tie the doll's hands as far apart as possible, spread the doll's legs to increase the exposure, and you can look down at the doll completely exposed in front of you, every inch of your body in sight.
Doggy Style With A Collar & Leash
Put a collar on the sex doll, make it kneel like a puppy, then tie a rope around the collar and gently pull it. Insert the sex doll's vagina or anus from behind, while stroking, use your hand or a whip to gently pat the doll's full buttocks. This can greatly satisfy the desire for dominance; it is your dog, and you are its absolute master
Tip: If you choose a full sex doll with a real ROS mouth, you can also give it a mouth plug or insert a whip into its mouth when excited. It will feel better and you will have more control
Oral Sex While Bound To A Chair
The thrill of tying a sex doll to a chair is indescribable. Put the sex doll in a chair, tie its feet to the legs of the chair, and bind its hands behind it like a prisoner. Then you can "interrogate" it or abuse it like a sadist
Then, if your sex toy is a male sex toy with a penis, the penis will be fully exposed. You can tie the penis of the sex toy with a whip or rope, which will make you feel excited. Oral sex and female dominance are also great for stimulation, as at this point it cannot "resist" you at all
Hands and feet tied
It's also a simple position, where the sex doll is lying on her back in bed and her hands and feet are tied together with handcuffs and leg chains. This position gives the controller complete control and more freedom, because the vagina and anus are exposed to you and it's a position where you can insert deep.
Tip: It's better to choose a mini sex doll that isn't too heavy. The light weight allows you to move the sex doll anywhere and gain more control.
Face down, butt up
Let the sex doll lie on the bed, spread its limbs as far apart as possible and tie them to the four corners of the bed. Then place a pillow on its abdomen, letting its full buttocks hang in the air. This position will make you feel very exposed and is perfect for rough sex. If you are a sadist, don't miss this pose. Insert forcefully into the deepest part of the sex doll's body while slapping its buttocks. It's simply a perfect position!
PS: Choosing BBW sex doll or big ass doll will make the stimulation of this position more intense.
FAQ
Q: Can sadomasochists use sex dolls for BDSM?
A: Of course, but there are limited sex dolls that sadists can use. I recommend using AI sex doll and setting up dirty talk through the voice function.
Q: Must a BDSM doll be used for a full-body doll?
A: I recommend full-body dolls, which are more stimulating, but sex doll torso can also be used for games such as restraint and slapping.
Q: How does a sex doll play out the role-playing in BDSM?
A: Role-playing is a very important part of BDSM. Through role-playing, specific atmosphere and situation can be created to enhance sexual stimulation. cosplay sex doll can be dressed in designated costumes or choose a specific appearance to achieve the function of role-playing, such as teacher and student, nurse and doctor, etc.
conclusion
Sex dolls are transforming human sexual life, including BDSM practices. They offer a safe and non-rejection partner for those who don't know how to initiate BDSM with their partners or fear that BDSM might invite social moral judgment. It's a great choice. Feel free to browse linkdolls or contact us to select your favorite sex doll and embark on a new BDSM experience.